Why didn’t you invite #3 to come straight over? It does seem like she was down right there and then. I bet yo won’t hear from her again because she came ready to f**k and you didn’t do it. Just my opinion.
It was on the table, but she had somewhere far to drive in the AM. That's what she said. I wasn't really pressed since I had already had a long day and we both live kinda far from each other.
If I pressed for it, it most likely would've been a one and done, which I'm not a fan of.
I would just read it as “I won’t stay over the night”. If things look promising on a date I’d just say “Let get out of here”. When out of the venue I’d say “Hey, it was good. I can walk you to the train station or we can have one more drink in my place”. This way there is no pressure. She has to say “yes” or “no”. It eliminates any “maybe”. It will be either now or “next time” (which may or may not come). I don’t lose any points by asking this question.
IME there can be a difference between "wild" and "dysfunctional" and it's possible to find the one without the other, or the one with (minimally) the other. May be harder to find wild w/o dysfunctional, however, especially online.
Unfortunately I think I'm only familiar with "dysfunctional wild", atm. Now that other women are coming into my life, I'm glad this one disappeared. Perhaps it was the last remnant of an old phase. I will keep my eyes open for "wild" without the dysfunction.
Why didn’t you invite #3 to come straight over? It does seem like she was down right there and then. I bet yo won’t hear from her again because she came ready to f**k and you didn’t do it. Just my opinion.
It was on the table, but she had somewhere far to drive in the AM. That's what she said. I wasn't really pressed since I had already had a long day and we both live kinda far from each other.
If I pressed for it, it most likely would've been a one and done, which I'm not a fan of.
I would just read it as “I won’t stay over the night”. If things look promising on a date I’d just say “Let get out of here”. When out of the venue I’d say “Hey, it was good. I can walk you to the train station or we can have one more drink in my place”. This way there is no pressure. She has to say “yes” or “no”. It eliminates any “maybe”. It will be either now or “next time” (which may or may not come). I don’t lose any points by asking this question.
Funny enough, I did this with #4. She chose, "No."
I will go for the pull next time. I imagine the situation will present itself again.
IME there can be a difference between "wild" and "dysfunctional" and it's possible to find the one without the other, or the one with (minimally) the other. May be harder to find wild w/o dysfunctional, however, especially online.
Unfortunately I think I'm only familiar with "dysfunctional wild", atm. Now that other women are coming into my life, I'm glad this one disappeared. Perhaps it was the last remnant of an old phase. I will keep my eyes open for "wild" without the dysfunction.