>>The SMV mismatch was too big for me. This is my ego talking, but I hate seeing good looking guys especially, walking with tubby/f*gly girls like they don’t have any choice4. You do. Learn game, and choose wisely.
It's almost always a mistake to try to change a woman, but I wonder if she's the type of chick who could change with good male leadership. Fix her nutrition and exercise habits, be a better version of herself.
Probably not, but a few people need help with their atomic habits and can fix them.
I wonder as well. However, I'm hesitant to see for myself based on past experiences. The girls I have been with put on a show as if they're making changes, but I never saw results. Atm, I'd much rather connect with women who are already taking care of their health/fitness so that I can officially break into a next "level." Maybe after a few of those experiences I'll be ok with being a bit more lenient, and I'll be ok with leading them in that area. I can lead by example, but I either become a tyrant or very nonchalant if I realize the person I'm supposed to be leading is not following/not following the way I want them to.
This specific girl was already saying things like "I want to be like you." and also looking at my body and saying things like, "I'm not like you." The change will be hard for her and most likely lead to negative feelings before any positive ones.
"The girls I have been with put on a show as if they're making changes, but I never saw results"
This is basically my experience. You can always invite them to the gym whenever you're going, until they stop showing up, which is usually pretty quick IME. And become a bore whenever they're around, going on about fitness and how important bodily integrity is to you, etc.
I guess I'm an optimist in some ways cause I like to try despite ultra low success %.
>>The SMV mismatch was too big for me. This is my ego talking, but I hate seeing good looking guys especially, walking with tubby/f*gly girls like they don’t have any choice4. You do. Learn game, and choose wisely.
It's almost always a mistake to try to change a woman, but I wonder if she's the type of chick who could change with good male leadership. Fix her nutrition and exercise habits, be a better version of herself.
Probably not, but a few people need help with their atomic habits and can fix them.
The rest are addicted to sugar and sloth.
I wonder as well. However, I'm hesitant to see for myself based on past experiences. The girls I have been with put on a show as if they're making changes, but I never saw results. Atm, I'd much rather connect with women who are already taking care of their health/fitness so that I can officially break into a next "level." Maybe after a few of those experiences I'll be ok with being a bit more lenient, and I'll be ok with leading them in that area. I can lead by example, but I either become a tyrant or very nonchalant if I realize the person I'm supposed to be leading is not following/not following the way I want them to.
This specific girl was already saying things like "I want to be like you." and also looking at my body and saying things like, "I'm not like you." The change will be hard for her and most likely lead to negative feelings before any positive ones.
"The girls I have been with put on a show as if they're making changes, but I never saw results"
This is basically my experience. You can always invite them to the gym whenever you're going, until they stop showing up, which is usually pretty quick IME. And become a bore whenever they're around, going on about fitness and how important bodily integrity is to you, etc.
I guess I'm an optimist in some ways cause I like to try despite ultra low success %.
Date #10 reached out and I responded as planned.