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NightRoller's avatar

This is the kind of push and pull that makes men and women insane.

"I think I can fix her/him!" they both think emphatically.

Live and learn, Mr. Monk. Keep Rolling.

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Madd Monk's avatar

Yea, this is not ideal but there's something here I'm still trying to suss out. If not, I would've moved on a long time ago.

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Yoylo PUA's avatar

Reading these posts about this woman, she sounds pretty much BPD. Run. Leave her and cut contact. Otherwise you will end up with more therapy than you can handle. Ask me how I know.

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Madd Monk's avatar

Man I wish I received this comment from you a couple of months ago. After reading about BPD, it sounds spot on. I'm still seeing her and she's calmed down quite a bit, but totally makes sense... Thanks.

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Yoylo PUA's avatar

Reach out @YoyloPUA on Twitter and I can explain you everything in more details.

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Yoylo PUA's avatar

Run. Cut contact and run. You cannot win this battle. I know you are addicted to her. I totally understand. I’ve been there. But that won’t end up well. You will remember that when things will explode in the end for you. BPD is hallmark of abandonment issues. You must abandon her first before she abandons you. She will do it at the worst possible moment when you are most vulnerable.

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the red quest's avatar

Start the blog to write your player stories, keep writing it to recognize BPD and other psycho chicks. The benefits accrue.

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