At sex parties, the “provider” part of the equation goes away almost entirely, at least for a night of passion. It’s more raw and carnal even than street pickups. The chick probably already has a primary partner who she evaluates in part for his material characteristics. The new guy needs to primarily be a hot sex guy. She's evaluating the guy much more along the physical lines.
I experienced this first hand. The night started out pretty tame… I started chatting with a couple. The girl started getting really friendly, putting her arm in my lap, etc. So at one point I had my arm around her while she was holding her guy’s hand. I knew it might be a wild night from there…
I’m not going to give a blow by blow. Pun intended. But at least for a night, I experienced being the sexy guy. As so did a few other guys, as my experience was a group scene focused on a chick (not the one mentioned above). A very hot and wild chick. Days later I’m still buzzing. Definitely a peak experience. A high of highs.
Different parts of the Game seem like they are coming together for me right now.
While I would say Daygame is a grind at the moment1, and is whooping my ass where I need it most, networking within the non-monogamy scene is coming together. I’m seeing how a party here, or making an acquaintance there, can turn into dividends. Especially if you’re into peak sexual experiences and the variety of chicks it can offer.
I will give examples that led up to this without going into detail of the scene itself o.
I’m still in touch with The Siren, and even though we’re not bumping uglies anymore, every now and then we connect in person and catch up. As I am making my own new connections and discoveries, I’m telling her about events and vice versa. She has also introduced me to some of her network. I still get a lot of “No’s”, but if/when I get a “Yes”, it can be a big yes. There are lots of parties that happen in smaller pockets outside of the public eye. In order to find those, I’ve had to show up to the public events consistently and I allow the connections to happen naturally. The rabbit hole is deep. The possibilities are endless.
I recently connected with Blackwing again after a long while and we linked up at an event. At this event, I met a girl. I don’t know what to call her yet. Some girls have a gravitational pull with their pussy, and this one definitely reeled me in. She mentioned a party. Initially I went to see her, however, the universe had other plans for me. I ended up in a mind blowing scene. This pushed the limits of what I thought was possible. I did not make this scene happen; I was merely a participant. However, the experience itself was like taking one step further into another dimension. I also made other connections that night that could lead to future dividends.
It’s a long game of sorts, and you never know when you’re going to get paid. You never know when you’re going to make someone’s night/day by gifting them with an ecstatic experience. There are opportunities to give and take, keeping in mind that reciprocity is key. This is a dance.
Continuing to work on my body, mind, my overall value, and Game is essential to keeping this going.
I’m exercising new muscles.