The Sweeter Things in Life
Growing with a woman in my life
It’s been a while since I’ve written anything. Once I got past a couple dates with Baker girl it was evident that she would have a major role in my life. It also felt too neurotic to keep recording each moment play-by-play. I want to live and really be in the moment.
In my last post,I really felt like the next part of my girl journey was not just picking up girls, but actually maintaining a relationship, and feeling like I would get more growth out of having a relationship than continuing the high (in my case, low) turnover of picking up girls, whether it be on the street, sex parties, or online. I still feel that way, although I might still have opportunities to do some picking up here and there ;)
The Sweet
The sex is always hot. She’s a squirter, and quite the cum sl*t.
She lifts. Before her, this has been a sore point for me. Trying to get girls interested in the gym has been fruitless. Usually they’ll pretend to enjoy it, but they can never really get on board with working out. I don’t have to tell Baker girl that she needs to work out. She was already training regularly before I met her. I help her with calisthenics, and she helps me with my heavy barbell lifts. She has a fit body, but wants to lean out some more so I have been helping her dial in her diet a bit, and making sure she gets all her calories in.
She has a solid job. She’s good at what she does, and it pays. I like that we’re able to treat each other. I also get to learn about what she does and get exposure to another world.
She likes me. She is very generous in so many ways. This is the first woman to invest so much in me. I would be careful here, because if you let a woman invest in you and you lead her on you could be in for a world of trouble. I do like her a lot, and make sure to reciprocate.
She’s already familiar with the scene. And a bit of a cuck. We’ve been to a few parties/events together already and enjoyed ourselves. Our agreement is that we pick up girls together. We’ve had some fun and interesting experiences. I’ve also tried picking up girls solo, but it has been slow and has caused some issues between us due to her being concerned about girls that I may or may not have had some previous history with. All I’ll say for now is jealously is a real b*tch. So from now on, only new girls :D And for the most part I will keep it while we’re out together. This may be a topic for another time, but it’s so interesting to learn her perspective on picking up other women. She thinks it’s so easy… sigh. Another challenge has also been her taste in girls. She seems to have a hot or not (more binary) selection, while I’m trying to cast a wide net. Some girls are cute, some are pretty, some are beautiful, some are hot. I’m open to all of those variations as long as the energy is good.
The Sour
The only thing that I can think of atm, is the fact that she’s works around a lot of men. Not a fan.
Everything in Between
She looks different without make up. Definitely more hot woman when she’s made up and cute girl when she’s not. And I’m neutral here, because I’m wondering how long her looks will last. I’m also neutral because aside from that she’s awesome in a variety of ways, and I probably have a bad habit of picking at flaws. So no matter how hot a woman is, I’d probably find something to pick at. At then end of the day the real questions are, do I like her look? Am I excited about her? Are we adding to each other’s lives? It’s an enthusiastic yes to all three.
Overall, there are more pluses than minuses. We both enjoy each other’s company, we handle conflict well together, and we’re overall on the same page about a lot of life things. We’ve both had a turbulent past in our own ways, and that comes in some of the things we say and how me might move, but we’ve been checking ourselves and each other. We’ve also been giving each other grace, instead of crucifying each other and then disappearing, which can be hard when it’s a habit.
I’ve done a lot of growing alone, and am not afraid of the lonely path, but I must admit, it feels a lot better to grow with a woman in my life. I think girls bring a certain level of excitement, maybe even chaos in some cases, and sweetness that I enjoy. The Baker girl brings just the right amount that I can handle. It seems we both want something a bit deeper while also leaving some room for some of the sweeter things in life.
