10 approaches
3 blowouts
1 proper stop
0 numbers
Today I felt flat. Because of that I was probably too logical today. Didn’t really sleep well, but I forced myself to go out because the weather was so nice. I noticed that as I got started, I was looking for the “Yes girls”. I had to give myself a kick to start approaching. Also, as it gets warmer the volume of girls is growing. So many to choose from!
Approach 1: Asian. Black frames. Stop was weak. I came off unsure of myself. Shook her head and left.
Approach 2: Asian. Cute. Commented on glasses. Walked for a bit, and was like “Looks like you’re trying to get your steps in for the day.” Sounded like she had more time on her hands than most others. She’s visiting a friend and she’s from Vancouver. After I found out how long she was in town for, I tried to go for the invite, but she told me the friend is a “friend.” Said she was flattered though.
From her remark, I felt like I wasn’t giving enough sexual intent. Too smiley.
Approach 3: Right off the back, “I have a boyfriend.” I replied with, “Don’t you want another one?” She dodged the hell out of me.
Approach 4: Brown girl with long straight hair. Beautiful. Approached from the side. My voice might’ve been too low. “Excuse me.”She stepped back. Looked me in the eye. I could see her pupils dilate from fear, probably. Because I’m such a dangerous man. Then she disappeared.
Approach 5: German chick. Had on movie star glasses. She had a black pencil outline around her lips that looked retarded and I should have commented on it. I started the conversation retarded… “Do I know you?” “No you don’t, I’m not from here.” Apparently she had been visiting for a couple weeks and was about to leave. She said she’d be hanging out with her friend for the rest of the weekend. I told her if she wants a detour, she should hang out with me. She was like, “No thanks.” We stood in front of each other for a couple seconds in silence before we both went our separate ways.
Approach 6: I walked with the Egyptian chick. Opened with “Red suits you well.” We had a long ass conversation before I noticed the big engagement ring on her finger. Ejected.
Approach 7: Blowout
Approach 8: Corduroy. “I saw you in the corduroy and I had to say hi.” She received it well. I said, “Hold up real quick” and put my hand out, and she stopped. The only proper stop of the day. Spoke for a second and found out she lives in the WV with her boyfriend. Let her go.
Approach 9: Tall Asian chick. Leather jacket. Nice style. I did not expect her to talk to me. She took out her earbud, and told me her name. She was on her way to dinner with friends. I started stuttering. I said, “Look, I don’t even know what I’m trying to say. I just think you’re cute. I like your style.” Then she told me about her boyfriend that she’s going to see after dinner.
Approach 10: Stunning Brazilian. She was standing next to me at the crosswalk. I hesitated. When we started moving I said, “It took me long enough, but I wanted to say hi. Why are you smiling.”
“Because it’s weird.”
“Oh? It’s weird to meet a handsome man in the street?”
“Maybe because I’m married.”
I can’t remember what I said after this, but we talked about Brazil a little bit and then she left.
I had zero conversation today past the open. I’m curious about them, but too slow to keep the conversation going before they hit me with some objection or just straight up leave.
Lots of fit girls in gym attire that I chickened out on today.
Light reword from Pancake on Approach 3:
Instead of “Don’t you want another one?”, which means I'm qualifying to her.
Something like, "And I heard you needed another one, so..." I can see this moving the conversation along and maybe making her laugh depending on what I say.