A Madd Monk Walks Into a Bar

One thing I've realized is that as much as I want to go hard with all the things I'm working on right now, I've got to blow off some steam and have some kind of fun. I'm not keen on going to any big events, but I decided that going out for a meal and a few drinks will do. And it just might be what I need to switch things up. I enjoy my routine meal prep, but getting out once a week for a fancy meal has been fun.

Last week I went to a Moroccan restaurant and sat at the bar in between three ladies. All of them were very receptive. They were all curious as to what I was doing there by myself. This is something I'll generally do when I'm traveling, but I don't do it that often in the city where I live. Some light flirting went on, but nothing heavy. I could tell they were more interested than I was. The thing is, I didn't go out looking for anything that night. I just wanted to enjoy some delicious food and wine. Good company, optional. Sometimes I think I don't need anyone or I don't need social interaction, but what I realized, is I do need some social interaction outside of work. Who knew?

So tonight, I did the same. This time, Lebanese. Ended up sitting next to two ladies again. After I ordered my food, I looked to my right, and asked the woman beside me what they ordered. From there, the conversation flowed. We laughed, shared food, and found out we had some things in common. No game, just having a good time. Before they left, the chick I had the most in common with, despite having a long distance boyfriend, slid me a postcard and pen and I wrote my number down. She's not my ideal prospect, but I'd probably smash if she followed up.

I tend to get drowned out in places like loud bars, and places where there's a lot going on. However, getting dressed up and having a meal/drink at the bar of a nice restaurant might be more my style. It's easy to spark up conversation, and it feels congruent with who I am. Plus, you never know who you're going to meet. I've generally met interesting people this way.

I don't know how much longer I have left in this city. A bigger city might be calling. In the meantime it's time to catch a few flights. Time to soak up some sunshine and warmth. Time for family.